How to go natural

You’ve decided that you’re done with the relaxers. Congratulations! You’ve joined the worldwide community of naturalistas. So now that you’ve finally made the decision to ditch the chemicals you might be asking yourself, “How do I go from the left to the right picture?”

Relaxed to natural hair collage - sticker

There are 2 ways:

The Big Chop (BC)

The BC can seem like the most daunting thing to do as it involves either chopping off all your relaxed hair so that you’re bald, or growing out your natural hair a few centimetres so that you when you do cut off the relaxed hair, you’re left with a teeny weeny afro, aka TWA. Understandably, this route may be filled with a level of anxiety as you need to be confident about exposing your ‘naked’ face and head to the world. Having said that, once you’ve done the BC you’ll feel a sense of accomplishment as you’ve just gone ahead and got the deed done. You are now fully natural.

Transitioning

This process involves growing your natural hair while gradually trimming away the relaxed hair bit by bit. It can take as long you want to reach the fully natural state, whether it be 3 months or 3 years – it will take as long as you see fit. It does however involve dealing with 2 hair textures, the relaxed ends and the natural new growth, at the same time. For some women this can be a somewhat challenging experience as the the 2 textures won’t necessarily react to product and styling methods in the same way, although with a little research and You-tubing there are plenty of styles that can assist with keeping the 2 textures healthy without driving you crazy.

Whichever method you choose is okay. The main thing to remember with both is to stop using chemicals immediately. That’s an instant way to ensure that the new hair growing from your scalp stands a fighting chance to be as healthy as it can be.

On the one hand I want to say, “Just do it. Go natural. What are you waiting for?” But I do understand that some women may not be ready for this, whether it be for fear of acceptance in your community, the workplace or perhaps fear of acceptance by yourself. Maybe you’re just not ready to face the natural you in the mirror quite yet. Again, that’s okay. If you’ve been wearing your hair in a relaxed state since a young age it’s completely understandable that you might become anxious at the thought of showing your natural tresses to the world. Women of colour with natural hair is still underrepresented in mainstream media so it stands to reason that you may feel uncomfortable with the notion as you don’t see it portrayed that often. Be that as it may, once you realise the potential your own hair has and what it can do for your own self-worth, it won’t matter  whether you see it in the media or not. You’ll just wonder why it’s taken you so long. So remember to do it your way. Your hair is unique to you, and your natural hair journey will be too.

Love your hair!

x

Share:

11 Comments

  1. May 23, 2014 / 12:13 am

    you look so different! Lovely in both but definitely prefer the curls!

    • May 24, 2014 / 11:20 am

      Thanks Ibi, I much prefer the curls now too, and I don’t miss the straight hair at all!

  2. May 23, 2014 / 12:32 am

    Wow! You are beautiful but with the natural hair!! Whoa!! Gorgeous.

    • May 24, 2014 / 11:19 am

      Thank you! The curls do make a huge difference doesn’t it 😉

  3. May 23, 2014 / 7:43 am

    Well put my dear!!! Love both your looks but you are rocking with your natural tresses 🙂
    Smiles!!!

    • May 24, 2014 / 11:16 am

      Thanks so much. I can’t believe how far I’ve come when I look at the difference in the two pictures.

      • May 24, 2014 / 11:18 am

        Yes girl, and you look so much happier now!!! Keep rocking your tresses my dear 😀
        Smiles!!!

  4. May 29, 2014 / 11:20 pm

    You are wearing those curls! Love the fullness and curl definition. Natural hair looks good on you.

Leave a Reply